Caz

inteawetrust:

I’m struggling a lot here lately.  Sometimes, I really wonder why I came all this way.  I feel like so many things are missing or broken and can’t ever be the same.  Weirdly, the more I start to find my own space here, the more I wonder what I’m doing, because some part of me is convinced I’m wasting everyone’s time, especially my own.

No adventure… no matter how daunting… is a waste of time.

You made a huge life changing decision that not only affects you but your loved ones.  There are bound to be moments… nay minutes and hours and days of doubt but have no self doubt.  Of course things are missing… of course things aren’t the same… isn’t that why you made the decisions you did… because you wanted things to be different… because you wanted to change things about your life for the better?

Have no self doubt…. have confidence in the decisions you made because they wouldn’t have been rash… spur of the moment decisions… they would have been long thought out and considered decisions and have the confidence in yourself to know you made the right decisions.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing… but don’t dwell on the past… or think too much into the future… live in the here and now.

Look at the man by your side and ask yourself if anything is missing…. I think not.